Author: Becca the Great

Just a thought regarding the ‘being tested’ – maybe it’s the language you used, but that doesn’t sit comfortably with me. Doesn’t have to – not my relationship – but being ‘tested’ on something that will affect your relationship, where you honestly voice how you feel, and somehow that’s a failure??? Not ok. You allowed to feel what you feel. It isn’t right or wrong. Your actions may be either, but your feelings are not. And you are allowed to be honest. If you can’t, then that’s the failure. X

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S/he has since said it “Test” isn’t the right word.  But I agree with you – you don’t test a person you care about. You ask them. If you don’t believe they’ll be honest with you, DUMP THEM. I really believe that.  I don’t think speaking my mind is a failure. I agree with you […]

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Just a thought regarding the ‘being tested’ – maybe it’s the language you used, but that doesn’t sit comfortably with me. Doesn’t have to – not my relationship – but being ‘tested’ on something that will affect your relationship, where you honestly voice how you feel, and somehow that’s a failure??? Not ok. You allowed to feel what you feel. It isn’t right or wrong. Your actions may be either, but your feelings are not. And you are allowed to be honest. If you can’t, then that’s the failure. X

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celiabasto: 100% ART I am feel really ugly today. Inside and out.  I feel lousy about feeling lousy. I’m fearful. Anxious. And, in all probability, jealous of a possible new person in Boy-side’s life. I feel like a starving person who is being asked to share the small amount I have. And I don’t want […]

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