It has been a year where Anna has popped up a lot. 

I have had several people reach out and want to know what happened, and because I pop up on her fet life account and tumblr, we are still connected. 

I’ve been happy to answer what I can, except I had this one person reach out to me just before burning man. I have since blocked them. 

Anna had spent some time searching for that special person/Dom to enjoy a partnership with. She did eventually find and marry a man a year or so before she died. But before him, there were lovers and exploring. 

The person who contacted me, was a woman who found out her partner had been involved with Anna on tumblr. He said it meant nothing. She wanted to know what I knew about it. 

Anna had mentioned him  – and I remember she had a tumblr that was specifically for him, who she called “the Professor”. This woman was frantic about it. I answered a few of her questions but didn’t tell her the name of the tumblr or anything that was personal to Anna. It got to the point where she was insulting me in messages, demanding I tell her more. 

Give me a fucking break lady. Jesus. 

Guess what, your guy kept you in the dark. Hid Anna from you while he was courting you. You decide how you want to deal or not deal with it. My guess is Anna wasn’t the only one. But for fucks sake, make a choice. Anna is dead, she isn’t a threat to you. Don’t talk shit about someone you don’t know, who’s shoes you’ve never walked in. 

Anna and I don’t owe you anything. I tried to be nice and you were a bag of dicks. 

… Anyway. It was a weird encounter. I can feel Anna rolling her eyes from the great beyond. 

I was happy to disconnect from the internet after that crazy and launch into the joyous life celebration that was Burning Man. It was a huge dose of human kindness/goodness that was refreshing.