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I don’t think he looks humiliated. I think he looks beautiful, lucky, cherished and protected❤️🔥
I 100% agree. It is the incongruent caption/blog name here that us unfortunate.
I love, love, love what you wrote. ❤ I also think she looks very lucky too.
Nobody ( that I respect) will agree but.. of course, he’s humiliated. The Tumblratti will disagree because in a putatively ideal world, he wouldn’t be. But until you see Hallmark valentines like this- he’s humiliated. And he’s humiliated because, in the non-Tumblr world, he would be ridiculed by most of his peers. And this, despite the fact that many would envy him – but rather because they can only admire him secretly. To avoid their own ridicule, they ridicule. ( yes, this probably reflects my social world but still..)
I’ll add one other unpopular opinion- the “humiliation “ is a good thing. It is a renouncement of his previous social status in exchange for the complete devotion he can now give. Were this more socially acceptable, it would be less a commitment, less a sacrifice, less.. romantic. It would be more akin to a 50’s marriage with standard gender roles.
So, yeah, let the poor boy burn with humiliation. Nobody should be denied that.
@ms-rebelheart (and, happy birthday!)
I fear that this will probably sound like I’m impatient, but it’s not meant with bad feelings, just my most honest situation with this topic 😆
I don’t believe anymore that there is a point to try explaining to sub males my own feelings and position regarding ‘humiliation’ (and I am not talking about cute teasing ‘look at my dirty little whore’ playful stuff). I have done it often. It is a feature of interacting mostly with submissives: Humiliation- in all its facets- is brought to me, my attention and my bed all the time. I DO have intimate knowledge of it and long experience with it.
I have expressed my thoughts on it with sincerity and with much thought only to receive time and time again the same reaction: That I surely must not understand the nature, effect or power of societal taboos and/or subversion (but I do and I explain that as well).
I feel that, ultimately, sub males who enjoy it deeply want to keep it and do not appreciate or want to hear that my own pleasure doesn’t hinge on it. I sense that it feels like a loss for them, an indictment even, something they wish I could simply understand better and appreciate with them in the way they imagine I ought to. Yet I cannot change the simple truth that it is not what brings me pleasure. So what is the point of disappointing them for no reason? They don’t have to change for me.
Humiliation kink is perfectly fine. What I express are my own desires and needs, not to proselytize but because there are all kinds of Dommes and I am one of them. So the only thing I will assert is that Dommes don’t necessarily need/want/enjoy humiliation and the quality of a submissive male doesn’t have to rely on it to be as special and powerful a gift as it is. There are other spirits.
Such an interesting topic. For me @dernierechancecohen I think it will very from sub to sub as to how humiliating that would be. And as @nice-predator mentions humiliation has all kinds of subtle (and not so subtle) flavours.
I think I’d like to hear what other subs think – does this kind of worship make you feel humiliated OR do you feel cared for and cherished?
Oh! And thank you for the birthday wishes @dernierechancecohen! 😊