Because he’s a human being, dipshit
okay ignoring the whole “doms cant be both dorky and in control” bullshit (someone can absolutely be both at the same time, I promise you)
being in control all the time is fucking exhausting!! even for people who like being in control!! that sounds like a real quick trip to burnout-ville which is a bad place to be! expecting a dom to be dominant literally 100% of the time and do nothing else – regardless of whether they’re “dorky” – is so fucking damaging and unfair and, frankly, kinda abusive. let your partner be a human.
Meanwhile every single quality partner/friend I’ve made told me that they first spoke to me because of my dorky tags. Being a dork is a superpower, don’t let weaklings convince you otherwise 😎
May our dorkiness be a light that draws those who appreciate us. 😎❤