if you say shit like “how does wearing a strap feel good for the top” or “why would you suck the strap they can’t feel anything” i’m stealing something from your house !!
It’s as absurd as saying “why listen to music or watch film, they’re not touching you”.. It’s touching your mind for god’s sake
And when it touches your mind like that you can feel it all over your body. I get a full body shiver just thinking about it.