Hey Anon! 🙂
Misty and I are partners. We’ve been together 8 and half years now (this blog is a bit older). Like anyone’s relationship it has evolved over time, deepened.
Misty is what I like to call a trans-personality. Dual Spirited. S/he is a blend of both masculine and feminine energy, and I love watching him flow back and forth between them. On a daily basis s/he presents as her boy side. Her kids do not know about this other side of him. Only sometimes does s/he get to be Misty.
We don’t share the same house. I own my own home and have all four of my kids with me. S/He has his own house and his own two kids part-time, but we travel back and forth between each other’s places, often with kids in tow these days (thanks Covid), as our nights on the town are nonexistent right now. When s/he doesn’t have his kids, we sometimes have sexy company over, couples or singles (guys usually).
We talk about one day living together, but not until our kids have gone off on their own adventures.
The 8 of us (him and I and the 6 kids) all do family things together – camping, skiing, board game nights, go carting, etc). So our lives aren’t a hedonistic orgy. It’s all about balance.
Our relationship is open. Which means we are free to meet others, but that has been a strange road to date.
If you haven’t and you would like to read more about us and how all the craziness works, you can read my post about how polyamoury has been working so far here – https://www.tumblr.com/blog/view/ms-rebelheart/666591327564251136
Let me know if that answered your question. 🙂
Hugs,
Becca