You can’t *make* anyone love you.
It just happens.
Being yourself with others, letting them in,
there is always that danger.
What are you going to do?
Never explore and test a new connection for yourself?
I think the bigger issue is why the “can’t”?
Can’t. Won’t. Don’t.
Those are all different.
Maybe look at which one of those it is.
And find out why
For yourself.
For your happiness.