I’ve never been one to stay silent. If you love him S, don’t let go. 

He loves you. 

So he was drunk and contacted me. Seriously inconsequential. Insignificant.  I recognized it as him needing his ego stroked. I honestly mean less than nothing to him. He loves you. Honestly, I’m surprised you’re even here. I expected Sarah. (call me, we can joke about it) 😉 

I am happy now, in my crazy life. I love Misty. I will always have Darth in my heart, but I know he loves you and you both need to sort your shit out. Marriage is hard, I know. I really wish you both happiness.  I really, really do. 

If you even want to hear my version, call me. I never wanted to be “the other woman”. I thought you knew. I believed it was an open marriage. I had hopes of us meeting and being friends. We would have been fantastic visual opposites, which I thought was really lovely. 

At the end of the day (as Misty would say), I want Darth and you to be happy. I exited stage left (and stayed away) so that could happen. 

Live and love well,

Becca